But the real question is, is dating a recently divorced man safe?
If you’re like most women, this question comes to mind often. First, you have to start by asking yourself if you are ready to face potential challenges that could come from such a relationship.
Ever since she left him, he's paid for his household expenses, she's paid for hers, and they coparent their kids without any drama.
Ben also separated from his wife two years ago (yet another thing we have in common), but neither he nor his wife filed.
The longer you are with someone, you come to learn of their extended needs; or the needs that you never knew they had.
If you’re in a relationship you can simply move on to the next candidate, but if you’re married; it’s just not that simple.
When we separated my ex and I agreed we would see other people, and I dated several women casually.Most divorced men immediately start dating a new woman to forget the bad memories of the previous relationship.Others may move on to replace a void, or to have companionship. You see, I separated from my ex two years ago, and our divorce was final about eight months later.Simply put, dating has a zero percent chance of making a divorce go smoother, and a bazillion percent chance of making it more contentious. I get that Ben has been separated for a couple of years, and that it was his wife’s decision to move out. Ben will be preoccupied with the twists and turns of his divorce at times – and that’s understandable.My dilemma is that I really like the person I’m dating, but I recently met someone else who interests me.