It can be difficult to be clear-headed in a dating relationship.It is easy to see only the positive in the other person and completely ignore any warning signs. It would be foolish to date someone and not even consider the possible outcomes.There are plenty of them, but let's focus on what I believe are the top five myths that make dating harder for Christian men.
In the mid-1990s, when I was seeing the man who became my husband, we talked on landline phones late at night (when rates dropped from 25 cents per minute to 10 cents), sent just a handful of e-mails (seemed impersonal), and never texted (weren't pagers mostly just for drug dealers back then? Along with these benefits, online dating does raise new dangers: a creep—a violent one, even—may be lurking behind the next click; the process over-represents certain features of a person (facial appearance, for starters); and it requires an investment of funds that perhaps could be better spent elsewhere. These archaic behaviors suited the olden days, but some of them seemed novel even to the generation before mine. It also reduces the need to choose between meaningful in a region where pickings are slim, and work that may be further from one's calling in a more populated area.FUEL HSM continues in its series on Relationships having the very frank discussion on Sex - specifically with the issue of sexual excess and the right to sexual happiness that we are surrounded with in the world.But looking at what order God has set out with physical intimacy and the dynamics of desire.However, a husband is responsible to lead his wife in sanctification, as this verse explains with the imagery of Christ and His bride.