But, as I say, for many people of colour, exoticism and prejudice is something we’ve been aware of since we began our dating escapades as teenagers.
I, for example, know that white guys rarely find me attractive – at least at the beginning.
This idea of playing it safe is something that’s taught to Asian men at a young age.
This is a large reason for why many Asian men are successful at their careers.
To further his cause, Tran is heading to San Francisco for the July 27 release of Starcraft 2 at SC2Bay Area's Mission Bay Conference Center (UCSF) launch party to convince men to put down the computer games and re-enter the dating game.
However, playing it safe isn’t the sexiest thing to a woman.
Acting on instinct and demonstrating dominance is a much more successful way to get the sexual interest of a woman.
Culturally, Asian men are taught a lot of things that help them lead comfortable lives.
It’s when an Asian man takes more risks, becomes more dominant, learns to socialize, and overall takes a more active role in his life when he becomes more attractive to all women.