If you find yourself wondering if you can really trust the guy you’re dating, you need to be absolutely sure before either dumping or marrying him.Trust is the biggest test Trust is a fundamental part of every relationship.Trust is certainly one of the more important aspects of a relationship.Whether it is a brand new relationship or a long term one, trust is key when it comes to giving your heart away and sharing your life with someone else.Sometimes in life, you get strong gut feelings about what you should do, where you should go or someone who you meet.A gut reaction is something that is primal and real, although not followed as often as it should be.How many times have you been stuck on a date with a random person your friends thought would be a perfect match for you (and it's like the worst date ever)? This is the best time to go with your gut because there is a part of you that already knows where you belong in this world — or at least the places you need to see before you settle down.
However, being the smart woman that you are, you find it important to address and eliminate all doubt in your mind before continuing any further.Due to the nature of my work and in particular my spidey senses and sniffer dog nose for shadiness and assholery, I can pick up on very subtle early warning signs that someone else may construe as me being ‘negative’ or even ‘too sensitive’. Now some people might think I’m crackers for thinking that but that warning turned out to be ridiculously true.For example, a few months back, I met up with a business acquaintance and when parting and discussing another meeting, they quipped that I’d better not be giving them any of that “sh*t” and pointed to my herbal tea. It’s not about jumping all over what may be innocent or ill-thought-out comments – those are distinguishable from the stuff that blossoms into a problematic relationship.It may be uncomfortable to try and follow these vague signals you feel, but when you start to act on them, you can radically shift your world for the better.While navigating the dating scene jungle, it can be easy to get caught up in the abundance of advice you get from your friends. There is no better time to get out in the world and find the place that fits you the best.If you look at your mutual and healthy relationships you will see that these people don’t put you down and rarely cross the line and if they do, they feel bad about it and don’t keep repeating it. Your instincts are correct when the behaviour you witnessed keeps showing up.