To the single girl still waiting: I know your pain.
I know your joy and the ups and downs and the rollercoaster of emotions you experience. I know that there are days when you absolutely adore your freedom.
We get dolled up and put on our best behavior to hopefully win an engagement proposal.
Consider this: as our culture has gotten more experienced or “better” at dating, it seems we have gotten worse at marriage.
My mother would always tell me that this was not the right guy for me, but I would always brush her advice off until recently. I would like to be with someone who already has his life established, no kids, etc., and is just waiting on me to complete his life who by the way, my parents tolerates. Uhm, when you have to call the police on your mate or partner, then it’s time to end the relationship. If he can call your mother out of her name, then I can only imagine the names he has called and said to you. If it was such a big NO-NO, then why are you still with him? It’s obvious you don’t have any regard for yourself or parents. Girl, when you first met him and he was working at Wendy’s, smoking weed and drinking, and staying out all night. Ma’am, the moment he opened his mouth is when you should have exited and said, “No, thank you.
I’m pretty fed up with this guy who I have been seeing for about 3 ½ years, so anything he does to try to impress me is like I have no more interest whatsoever. It’s time to say goodbye and let bygones be bygones. I really can’t believe that this clown is still living after he called your mother a b***h and whore. If he disrespects your parents, well, we already know that he disrespects you. I’m not interested.” What was enticing or intriguing about him?
Dating Problems My concerns with dating in general are that people usually misrepresent themselves.You feel forgotten, invisible, and left out, and all you want to do is cry.In those moments, please remember that you don’t have to sit and wait idly.We are marrying later, marrying less, and those marriages are failing more often.WE ARE DOING SOMETHING WRONG (fact) and I believe it has to do with how we date. It’s no secret that in biblical times, our example was arranged marriages.Stop pacifying these grown ass men who are little ass boys! I’m going to make this brief because I truly believe if I spend any more time wasting my thoughts, energy, typing, words, and “KEEP HOPE ALIVE” speech on you, that you are not going to do anything about your situation Girl, you better get you some business and a life. There is nothing he can offer you, give you, or bring to the table. Please tell me what type of future you see with this man?