Because I'm an inquisitive person, I used it as an opportunity to call him out via text for ghosting me but still lurking on my social media.Reconnecting after dates Reconnection rituals can be very helpful for couples especially in the beginning stages of opening the marriage or relationship.Sometimes days or even an entire week goes by before I finally take a breath and when I do, I realize all too often that I’ve started to feel like my hubby and I are living two separate lives!In all the hustle and chaos of life, we lose focus and forget to take even a minute to find each other and the reasons we fell in love in the first place.To help you make this one minute of focus ridiculously easy , Carisa from Messes to Memories helped us create the most adorable idea cards. These little idea cards fit perfectly on jumbo craft sticks, I just used a bit of mod-podge to keep them on and now they’re nice and sturdy.If you don’t have any craft sticks lying around though (or you’re not feeling particularly crafty), you can just print them on some heavy-duty card stock and call it done!You might be wondering how anyone can really connect in just a minute, but we think that if you put every ounce of energy into that minute, you can make huge waves!Of course, that doesn’t mean you should quit your weekly , but at least you can use these super simple ideas to bridge the gaps in the day-to-day craziness! This way, you won’t even have to think of to reconnect, just spend your minute with your love!
We dated again in early 2014, then stopped communicating.And after a couple weeks of playing cat and mouse to solidify a plan, we met up for drinks at a wine bar in downtown Manhattan, where I learned a hell of a lot about myself, dating, and how much people pretend you've never thrown down a thirst trap).Sure enough, like the perfect Pavlovian response, he did.I matched with him one night on Tinder, and we chatted briefly on the app before moving to texting, then to a date at a Spanish restaurant. He was funny, kind, and a strong, built 6'6″ — a perfect physical match to my 5'9”.We had the same sense of humor, shared a lot of the same political views, and when he kissed me, I felt lightheaded in the way that an amazing first kiss is supposed to make you feel.Pop those suckers into a mason jar and you’ll have a go-to set of ways to reconnect in one minute or less!