After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website.Assuming you're referring to dating Chinese people from the PRC, and American people from America, and remembering that we're all individuals- here goes my personal (and hence limited) experience: Chinese dates: Obviously, these aren't indicative of everyone in those groups- but there is a prevailing attitude thanks to a different cultural climate.
Such an impossible situation is made possible by Chinese women who aren’t able to say “no” when it comes to expat men.
In fact, I moonlight as a rather well-connected man-about-town in the expat community here (or rather, I was doing so earlier this year… Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone.
So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating.
As with any culture, not everyone from China shares the same beliefs.
Still, there are some attitudes about dating that are common among the Chinese. In the United States, we're used to the idea that we make our own choices about whom we date and whom we marry.