It is, however, definitely written for those with some degree of personal growth, some opening up to the awareness that .In this sense, it’s certainly in a much more sophisticated class than ‘Dating for Dummies 101’. She writes in a way that is easy to read – deceptively so, since each short chapter provides the basis for serious self-reflection, contemplation “Even if you’re not concerned with dating or finding a partner, consider how relying primarily on your eyes for information might be keeping you from more fully exploring smell, touch, sound, and taste.I’m talking about the energetic concept that makes that kind of sex possible: balance of the masculine and feminine energies. After getting out of a very intense five-year relationship, I actually took a year off from dating altogether.At the end of the year, I met a lovely lawyer in LA who subsequently flew to New York City to woo me. He really had his shit together, but one night lying naked in bed he called me a “stallion” – and I knew as soon as he uttered that word that we weren’t a match. But to his credit, the dating experience was so positive it got me back in the saddle and over my fear of opening up my sacred sexual energy to a new partner.That’s why I haven’t had sex, again, for two and a half years. The second time we soaked in the hot tub, in the bright sunshine under the towering firs and Jeffrey pines that surround my home, and he touched me for real for the first time … Over the next 24 hours, I felt everything in me opening and coming alive. check out the Facebook video from the next day here, and you’ll see what I’m talking about.) It would have been easy to let one thing lead to another …I’m pretty sure I discovered the secret to online dating. I’m not talking about super-connected, total body orgasm, tantric sex.
Like me, he walked away from the trappings of “success” – prestige, extreme athleticism, the relationship house and business – and reduced his life to absolute simplicity and essence. I really don’t see a reason to settle for anything less.Almost immediately my inbox was flooded with hundreds of messages from dudes who: 1. Were clever but weren’t particularly attractive: “Multiple photos of you in leggings before 11am. Were so totally wrong for me (and also crazy, with really poor grammar): “So I was reading your profile and then I was like goddammit…this always happens every time, I’m reading some nice girl like your selfs profile and then I remember I didn’t check your diet…Bam!I know I’m fucked before I even look, she’s going to be a god damned vegan, CRAP!I am NOT looking for a one night stand, or casual sex with as many men as I can find.FIRST, Surrey BC & Blaine British Columbia Love Goddess_w8n4u 60 Woman Seeking Men Im a brilliant, artistic, creative, crazy, fun-loving lunatic.The soulful music is helping me tap in to my desire to write again after a long hiatus. My soul partners are always musicians, athletes, storytellers, with high need for freedom, and their right brain fully engaged. They are tuned into the intuitive flow of the Universe, which creates the delightful river of conversation, the outpouring of music, the touch on the skin that brings my whole body and soul alive. ;) (He just looked up from his guitar and asked “is the music helping your writing?